The process begins with an orientation session during which the mediators explain Divorce Mediation in detail, help the couple identify the issues, and establish a schedule of sessions.

Next, the couple gathers the necessary financial information and is then ready to begin to review and resolve the issues important to them. With the help of the mediators the couple develops and chooses options which are right for them. Couples may consult with tax, real estate, and business appraisal experts for additional information.

After the couple has reached agreement on the issues, the mediators provide them with a written agreement detailing their decisions. Each spouse takes the written agreement to an attorney for review. The attorneys' comments may be incorporated into the written agreement. When the agreement is completely acceptable to the couple, the case is scheduled for court approval of the divorce.